For The First Time David Shows Kindness To Mephibosheth!

As we enter 2nd Samuel chapter 9, I want to remind you that precise chronological order is not maintained in this book. And this is because the authors and/or editors were not endeavoring to create a blow-by-blow account of David’s reign. But instead they were weaving together the most significant events that shaped David’s career, illuminating his admirable qualities as well as his flaws, and most importantly they were revealing God’s plan and intentions.

We’re going to have to do a little weaving ourselves, today, to gain a better understanding of what we see occurring. I promise you that the several hidden elements of what seems on the surface to be a rather simple story are going to surprise many of you.

Chapter 9 is the story of David remembering his promise to his dear friend Jonathan and on the surface of showing compassion upon the house of Saul. Let’s recall those circumstances that led David to do this by reading 1st Samuel 20.


Read 1 Samuel 20:11-17.


Now that things were relatively stable and battle for survival was no longer his everyday task, David turned his attention to less urgent matters. Long ago David had promised Jonathan that he would show kindness, chesed, to his children and that he would not execute the remnants of Saul’s family (as was customary when a new king and his family deposed a former king and his family).

The date of this story in 2nd Samuel 9 we can only approximate as about the middle of David’s reign (a total period of 40 years). The main character used to demonstrate David’s faithfulness to a vow made so many years earlier (a promise made before the Lord) is Mephibosheth (also known in the book of Chronicles as Meriba’al). Mephibosheth was lamed as a 5-year-old child when his attending nurse dropped him in a panic as they fled believing that David was coming to kill those who remained of Saul’s dynasty.


Read 2 Samuel 4:1-4.


It was the murder of Abner by David’s supreme military commander Joab that precipitated the widespread panic that led to this tragic accidental crippling (probably due to a spinal injury) to the child Mephibosheth and no doubt David learned of it and probably felt a twinge of guilt if not responsible for it.


Let’s Read 2 Samuel 9.


david-mephiboshethVerse 1 has David asking the question of his royal court if anyone was aware of a family member of Saul that was still alive. One has to ask, why now? What was the catalyst for David suddenly, after probably two decades having passed, thinking about Saul’s family? Surely David’s wife Michal (who was King Saul’s daughter) would have been aware if she had aunts, uncles, brothers, sisters, cousins, or others of her family that was still living and even where they were located. Why didn’t David just ask her?

The answer may well lie in a later chapter of 2nd Samuel that we’ll study in due time. Let’s jump ahead and go there now and read part of it.


Read 2 Samuel 21:1-14.


We certainly are not going to study this chapter in depth today; however, it contains pertinent information about a slaughter of Saul’s family that occurred with David’s blessing. And interestingly we find that Mephibosheth is mentioned as having been spared. Further, the same chapter ends (although we did not continue our reading to include it) that David was still dealing with the Philistines, even though in chapter 8 we’re told that the Philistines had been subdued and rendered weak.

Thus it is commonly (and I think correctly) held that likely this event of 2 Samuel 21 occurred BEFORE the development of 2 Samuel chapter 9. Which leads David to ask several months (perhaps a couple of years) later after the genocide upon Saul’s family, “Is there anyone still alive from the family of Saul to who, for Jonathan’s sake, I can show kindness?” David was fully aware who Mephibosheth was (he was Jonathan’s son), and no doubt that is why he refused to give royal permission to allow the Gibeonites to kill him along with all the others from Saul’s family.

However, Mephibosheth had disappeared, and his whereabouts didn’t seem to be known. Blood revenge was the mode of the day, and surely the Gibeonites were not about to rest (after they had killed several members of Saul’s family) until they also killed Mephibosheth, so he was taken to a secret and protected place that even David didn’t know about.

So the context of our story (and of David’s inquiry) is that the known remaining members of Saul’s family had been executed with David’s consent, and now David is concerned about that vow he made before the Lord especially as concerning Jonathan’s descendants.

More evidence that this is the correct context of the story is further verified by verse 2 that has a fellow named Tziva (Ziba) being brought to David to answer David’s inquiry. Ziba (probably meaning statue) is said to be a servant of Saul’s household; in Hebrew, it is “eved”, and indeed it means slave or servant. While there is no specific mention of it, ancient Hebrew tradition is that Ziba was a gentile (which accounts for a name like “statue” that would have probably been a reference to an idol).

So this Ziba is a hired non-Israelite steward over Saul’s estate and (at the moment at least) seems to be the person having the most authority over whatever remains of Saul’s holdings. Now the next logical question is: why isn’t a surviving member of Saul’s family running things instead of a hired gentile caretaker? Answer: because of what we just read in chapter 21.

Saul’s few remaining family had somewhat recently been executed, and so the highest-ranking servant of the family suddenly found himself standing alone at the top of the pecking order. There was no one else left to oversee Saul’s estate. Ziba had won the lottery (or so it seemed)!

Is there anyone still alive from the family of SaulSo Ziba stands before David and verse 3 has David directly inquiring about the same question: “Is there anyone still alive from the family of Saul to who I can show God’s grace?”

Now look at your Bibles and compare the question that David asks in verse 1 with what is said in verse 3. Most Bible versions have in verse one “show kindness,” and in verse three “show grace” or “show mercy.”

I merely want to use this passage to point out to you why translating the Bible from Hebrew to English (or from Greek to English for that matter) is so problematic. All 3 of these English words (kindness, grace, and mercy) that each has a somewhat different meaning for us is actually the SAME Hebrew word, “chesed”.

So for the average Bible student, it appears as though the question that is asked is slightly different between verses 1 and 3, and thus the characterization of what David is proposing to do for a hypothetical survivor of Saul’s family is somewhat different; but in fact, it is not so. Chesed is a uniquely Hebrew concept that indeed includes elements of kindness, grace, and mercy, but that is not all.

Unfortunately, as a practical matter, a Bible translator has little choice but to pick SOMETHING, as his translation of preference, and it needs to be a single word and not a long explanation otherwise we’d have Bibles the size of the Encyclopedia Britannica. Already the Old Testament in our English Bible is 1/3rd more words than the Hebrew Old Testament just in trying to get across some semblance of a reasonable translation.

So when we take these regular detours to examine even a single word in a passage carefully understand that it is necessary because there is no way that our Bibles, as translated to English, can adequately convey these Hebrew thoughts or cultural nuances to us as we have received them.

So very often we have all heard that the Bible (especially the Old Testament) makes little sense and is filled with contradictions. But the reality is that most of those supposed conflicts are due to the necessarily limited or quite poor or agenda driven translation efforts. And also because a book of only a few hundred pages (the Bible) spans an enormously extended period from the Creation of the world to the coming of Christ, it is impossible for the Bible translators to explain to the reader cultural norms.

Therefore it is incumbent upon us to learn about the ancient culture and history of the era and of the Middle Eastern region of the world, and to delve into the original languages as much as possible, to resolve most of these difficulties.

So (now that I’ve set you up!) it’s time for another one of our infamous detours. In verse 3 where it says that David wants to demonstrate “God’s chesed” to any surviving member of Saul’s family, it is not meant that it is God that is showing the chesed. More precisely it is that David is making it clear that the purpose of seeking out survivors of Saul’s family is to keep a vow (that by definition has invoked God’s name as the guarantor of the promise).

Ziba responds that indeed there is a survivor, he is Jonathan’s son, but he has lame legs. It is interesting that the last verse of this chapter also points out again to the fact that Mephibosheth has lame legs, and this has not escaped the attention of the Rabbis. Their take on this emphasis of lameness is that Ziba is sort of showing scorn for Mephibosheth because inherent in David’s question about there being any survivors of Saul’s family is why a gentile servant would be in charge of this former King’s substantial estate if there were family members still living.

It is undoubtedly to Ziba’s advantage if there were no survivors because his status as the top dog would remain unthreatened. Even though Ziba is not so unwise as to boldly lie to Israel’s king, he does quickly point out that while there is a survivor he is a cripple (thereby answering the unasked but obvious question). So why does it matter that Mephibosheth is lame?

The thing is that in ancient times cripples were seen as near worthless. They were a burden and, barring some unusual circumstance, they usually wound up as street beggars to survive. A cripple could never hold a position of prominence or authority because he would be seen as unable to carry out the duties or to defend his position from people who would take it from him.

The disabled weren’t merely seen as having little use they were actually despised and looked down upon as undesirables bordering on ritually unclean. In fact, we’ll find several lessons in the New Testament involving disabled people where Yeshua speaks against the custom of the era to see these unfortunate folks as little more than bugs to be stepped on.

Even more, it was often reckoned that their disability was of divine doing and so there must be something inherently distasteful about them that caused them to be cursed and rejected by God. That was the mindset.

Let’s briefly look at, but one example to better help us understand just how the lame and blind were viewed all throughout Bible times. Turn to John 9.


Read John 9:1-17.


Here is one of the first stories that children are taught in Sunday school. I don’t want to get into the in-depth theological aspects of this story, but instead, I merely want to use it from a social aspect. That what so terribly angered the population of Jerusalem by what Yeshua did (and it especially upset the religious elite) is that this blind man should NEVER have been healed. It was WRONG in their eyes to heal him; that he was healed on Sabbath mattered but equally, so the Sabbath issue was secondary, it was an excuse to find fault. What actually mattered to them is that this man was SUPPOSED to be blind.

Thus Yeshua’s disciples ask the question of their Master (and I paraphrase), is it the man’s own sin or is it that of his parents that caused his blindness? In other words, every person among the surrounding onlookers as well as Yeshua’s own disciples took it as self-evident that the man’s blindness was divine retribution caused either by the man’s own sin or that of his parents.

So he was indeed worthy of his affliction and of the Jews’ scorn and ridicule for him. And Yeshua completely overturns conventional societal thinking (as well as the faulty theology) of the era by saying that it was neither one: sin had nothing to do with it. The man’s blindness was not a divine curse. That in fact, the Lord was using this social outcast’s unfortunate condition to demonstrate his divine glory and mercy.

The public attitude was that God didn’t love the disabled otherwise He wouldn’t have caused their disability in the first place. The crippled and lame were generally even barred from the Synagogue because they were seen as abandoned by God.

So when Yeshua healed the blind man the Judean people and the religious authorities saw it as the highest offense and outrage that a mere man had seen fit to intervene and overturn a divine decision to punish this man by making him blind. It was evident to most of the eyewitnesses that Yeshua had healed this man, and just as obvious He must have had some supernatural power that enabled Him to do it.

But since most of them didn’t believe Yeshua was divine, then the only alternative as to where this power came from for Yeshua to heal is that he was of the devil (something he was regularly accused of after He had performed a miracle). Some did think that the power He had was a good power, so they openly wondered if perhaps He was “The Prophet” (possibly a reincarnated Elijah) who many believed was due to appear.

Now let me sermonize just a moment. What we do NOT hear in John 9 is the crowds shouting that this blind man deserved to be blind and that God didn’t love him, so Yeshua was wrong to heal him. However, it was what they thought deep down inside; and it was a principle that they took for granted without further examination because it was how things had been for thousands of years. Only in private circles and in hushed tones would they ever actually say that thought out loud because it would sound so pitiless and harsh if they did otherwise.

Do we not do the same thing at times? Is it not our knee-jerk, almost unconscious, reaction to seeing someone that we have had little regard for. Or someone that we have watched do things that we find spiritually dangerous and just morally repugnant, and if something serious happens to them we think (but usually won’t say it out loud), “They had it coming. It was bound to happen. It was God giving them what they deserved for sin”?

Humankind’s attitude regarding physical disability and personal calamity hasn’t changed all that much in several thousand years, even if we act outwardly different towards it in Western society by providing wheelchair ramps, restrooms equipped for the disabled, signs in brail and so on.

But let me also be clear that Messiah never said or implied that physical disability or calamity was God caused; certainly, sometimes it was. The issue is that it is rare that we have any actual insight, as to which is which and that it is just as wrong of us to assume that all physical distress or calamity is the result of a person’s sin.

And it is just as wrong to presume that God would never intentionally pour out disaster or disability on people He loves as punishment or discipline or perhaps even as a way to show His glory to that disabled person infirmities. We do not know and we probably ought to be considerably more humble in our personal estimations about it.

Well, back to our story, Mephibosheth is automatically seen as cursed by God and so disqualified to be anything but a person to be ignored. Even though Mephibosheth had legal rights of inheritance as Jonathan’s son (King Saul’s grandson). Here instead was a gentile servant running Saul’s estate due to no more than social customs, superstitions, and false religious doctrines.

004-david-mephiboshethIn verse 4 David asks where Mephibosheth was residing. Interestingly he is NOT dwelling on Saul’s estate that Ziba is running. Instead, he is living in the house of a fellow named Makhir (Machir) in a place called Lo-D’var (Lo-Debar). Machir is a standard family name in the portion of the tribe of Manessah that chose to live in the Trans-Jordan.

So members of the Machir clan in the northern Trans-Jordan are hiding Mephibosheth (a Benjamite) from the Gibeonites. The Machir group was one of many who had been fiercely loyal to King Saul, and so it is no surprise that they would offer sanctuary to Saul’s grandson.

Lid-VirLo-Debar is either a translation error or a copyist error. For one thing, Lo-Debar means “no pasture” or “no word” depending on which vowel sounds one uses to pronounce it, either way, that is nonsensical.

More precisely the place name is actually Lid-Vir, and we find it first mentioned in Joshua 13:26. It is located east of the Jordan River (the Trans-Jordan) near Jabesh-Gilead.

The people of that area had very close ties with the tribe of Benjamin and especially Saul’s family even before Saul was king because they were rescued from the brutal King Nachash of Amon by a large contingent of men from the tribe of Benjamin, led by Saul.

Later still, after Benjamin was decimated in a severe police action by the other 11 Israelite tribes, women from Jabesh-Gilead were given to the few remaining Benjamite males to repopulate the Benjamite tribe.

So the relationship between the people living in that area and Saul’s family was more than mere political loyalty, they were closely related by blood.

So why would Jonathan’s son be living in the Trans-Jordan, among another tribe, and not on his own family’s estate, being well cared for by the hired caretaker Ziba?

Mephibosheth is living in the Trans-Jordan because of what we read in 2nd Samuel chapter 21. Mephibosheth was primarily the sole survivor of a David-approved blood vengeance vendetta by some Gibeonites against Saul’s family. These Gibeonites were duty bound to finish the job, despite David’s instructions to leave Mephibosheth alive (and I suspect that David somehow felt he was absolved from liability before God by ordering the men to spare Mephibosheth).

But of all people, David fully understood the timeless nature of Middle Eastern blood vengeance, and he well knew that the danger to Mephibosheth remained. In fact, I suspect that David never thought Mephibosheth would survive for very long and was probably a little surprised to hear that he was still alive and living across the Jordan River.

So David sends for Jonathan’s son, and when Mephibosheth is presented to the king he falls on his face in submission, no doubt figuring his life is over. In verse 7, when David says, “Don’t be afraid” it is not because Mephibosheth is intimidated by being in the presence of royalty. It is because he thinks David is going to execute him or turn him over to the Gibeonites for retribution.

006-david-mephiboshethMephibosheth is shocked to hear that not only is he going to live but also that Saul, his Grandfather’s considerable estate is going to be turned over to him. Even more, the lame Mephibosheth is going to eat at David’s table from here forward, and this is framed as a kindness (chesed) to him for the sake of his father Jonathan whom David loved.

Mephibosheth, a cripple, useless, who has earned nothing, looked down upon with disdain all of his life and perhaps only with pity even among the clan that had been hiding him, is dumbfounded. In typical oriental fashion, he asks why a “dead dog” such as himself should be accorded such unmerited privilege. A dead dog is merely an expression of great humility, of being the lowest of the low, the least worthy.

007-david-mephiboshethDavid now turns to Ziba and tells him of a new reality; the crippled and formerly useless Mephibosheth is now his Master. And the estate is being given to Mephibosheth in the name of his former master, King Saul. Giving it all to Mephibosheth rather than allowing Ziba (who had maintained it all for years) to remain in possession, is seen as mishpat tzedek: righteous justice.

How does David have the right to order such a thing? David can do such a thing because he is king. Especially since Saul’s estate had no current legal owner, then by law it reverted to the monarchy. It was David’s to do with it as he pleased. He could have kept it for himself, but he didn’t.

Ziba had the benefit of running the place and reaping its rewards for some time, and now he would still do well for himself, but he would so under the ownership and authority of Mephibosheth. I can’t imagine Ziba thought that this was very fair or right; I have no doubt he had hoped for a better outcome.


Read Matthew 20:1-16.


The first shall be last, and the last shall be first. God’s justice is very different than man’s fairness, and the story of David and Mephibosheth highlights this principle. Mephibosheth wasn’t merely the last; he was the last of the last. But now he stands before the king as his friend. Now the estate belongs to him.

Ziba will remain in charge, but it is to provide for Mephibosheth’s family and probably whatever women and children that remained of the house of Saul. Mephibosheth is being relocated not to the family estate but to Jerusalem, and there he will eat at David’s table. It is the usual take that the reason for this relocation to Jerusalem is because he is lame and thus needs to be near to David to receive the food David has promised.

However, it’s important to understand that “eating at David’s table” is not always literal. It doesn’t necessarily mean that a person is going to dine with the king. It is that the king gets only the best food, and any kind of food his heart desires, in any quantity he wants.

So the idea is that Mephibosheth will receive food of a quality fit for a king, and it will be provided at no cost. Notice that Mephibosheth is NOT going to live in the City of David, but rather in Jerusalem. So it is also NOT that Mephibosheth is going to become an honorary member of David’s court and become a high official and thus dine daily with the king.

But I think there is something else at play as well. Whereas before now Mephibosheth was in hiding and thus protected from the blood avengers of Gibeon, he is now out of hiding and the word of what has proceeded here today will be known far and wide in but a few days.

If Mephibosheth were to reside on Saul’s estate (that now belongs to him), virtually at the front door of those who wanted blood vengeance upon him, he probably wouldn’t last very long. His only other option was to go to one of the Levitical sanctuary cities, but that was hardly something that anyone welcomed. Living in a City of Refuge was more or less as a self-exiled prisoner and on a subsistence level.

So David took on the responsibility to protect Mephibosheth and the only way he can do that was to keep him nearby where David’s private bodyguard could deter any murderous intentions against him.

In verse 11 Ziba really tries to deter David’s decision, but in the so doing only further exposes his haughty attitude. He tells the king that he will undoubtedly obey every aspect of David’s decree; however, he had been doing an excellent job of caring for Mephibosheth and that Mephibosheth had been eating “at his table.”

First of all, notice again that “eating at my table” does NOT mean literally dining together, rather it means “providing for.” Most often it is referring to food, but depending on the context it could indicate providing for all a person’s needs.

But to hear Tziva saying that it was “my table” is really arrogant. Ziba owned nothing. Ziba was a gentile servant. Ziba sat at the table that had been owned by King Saul, and now (primarily) by King David. Ziba was a gentile outsider and was given the privilege of joining in the bounty of an Israelite’s harvest, in Israelite land, that was an Israelite inheritance from the God of Israel. The king of God’s kingdom gave that right to him.

But it was ONLY because of the king’s kindness (his chesed) that the gentile Ziba could partake of Israel’s bounty, and such a privilege could be easily removed if Ziba thought too highly of himself or didn’t want to obey the conditions for this beneficial relationship as given to him by the king.

Turn your Bibles to Romans 11 where this pattern is retold in another way. And gentile Believers (especially), please pay very close attention.


Read Romans 11:13-22.





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